You know you're stupid and unable to cope when you forget to ring the oil man and have your oil tank refilled.

You know when you've got no heating and it's freezing and you need a bath but there's no hot water and you haven't got anyone to blame but yourself, well you know then that you're really a big failure and you have no life skills whatsoever. And you know when you've got no heating and it's freezing and you need a bath, no you want a bath because it might make you feel a little less sad, a bit less stressed, but you can't have one because you failed to make sure your fuel supply was continuous, well you know then that what everybody said was right.

You are rubbish.

And, just so it's clear, you feel glad that at least you're the only one up, so you're the only one who is cold and sad in the house, because the other person who lives here is currently toasty warm in bed, dreaming of smashing up Springville. And anyway you sorted it out enough that the oil man comes tomorrow.

At least you managed that.